These four common etiquette is wrong, the mother wants to see clearly again teaches the child – moth soulseek

The four common etiquette is wrong, mom to see again to teach children the mother – Sohu | cheats Jun Chinese since ancient times is a state of ceremonies, but now Chinese most sorry for a state of ceremonies this four word. Some good etiquette has not been handed down, but some one-sided etiquette in the parents continue to educate their children. The mothers look at these four common mistakes, whether you are still teaching children. Forcing children to greet the mother took the children to go out, meet with friends, the children do not want to say hello, parents will be labeled impolite, introverted labels, some parents even forced children to say hello, but the results are often counterproductive, more criticism, the more stubborn child does not cry. In fact, children greet polite, does not need to be forced, as long as the parents of a good example, often with enthusiasm to greet people, monasteries children develop good habits, excessive force will only hurt the child’s self-esteem and self construction. To let the small as a brother or sister, grew up listening to do more than you are the elder brother and sister want to let his brother and sister, and this forced humility, will only let the children think parents eccentric, despise him, gradually become rebellious, confident, and children is being spoiled. Become wayward, opinionated. When the conflict when the child appeared, parents should remain neutral, understanding the causes of things, think of ways to solve. Do not know this is a common problem Chinese refused to parents, such children know others wrong, know the child is sick and can’t eat certain foods, but take into account the relatives and friends of the face, let the children feel shy to stop, when your face hurts. Sharing is a tradition, to accept the share is also a kind of courtesy, but if this share hurt the child’s physical and mental health, parents should resolutely reject. Extraordinary humility when the child was praised by others, the parents will be accustomed to refuse, ah, ah, my child, ah, courage can be small, even a cockroach are afraid……" Not only do not agree with the child will be short. Parents say, one is modest, on the other hand is afraid of children get too much praise and become proud, but in fact parents do it is in the fight against the child’s self-confidence, hurt the child’s self-esteem. When children receive compliments, parents need to do is to accept the praise of others, and to encourage children to do better. ———————— children caught a cold, how to do? What is the baby crying? How do the child spits? Baby long eczema how to deal with? Want to let the baby grow taller, what way? When will the baby call mother? 1 year old really have to wean it?…… If you have these parenting confusion, please pay attention to WeChat public number: [parenting tips]. Do the "bottom" of the mother heart!相关的主题文章: